Warning Signs That Someone You Know Might Be a Serial Killer

If you believe any Law and Order or Criminal Minds episode, you would think millions of serial killers are wandering around every day. But just because there's probably not really that many serial killers roaming everywhere, it doesn't mean you shouldn't be prepared. There are certain serial killer warning signs that you should watch out for in the people that you call your friends and family.

You need to be informed about serial killer personality traits that should tell you to run away and never come back. Check out this list below for all the signs that someone is a serial killer so you can be prepared and keep yourself safe. 
 

If you know someone who is constantly excusing themselves to go to the bathroom with a laptop and a pair of headphones, you might be dealing with a person who has an extremely active libido - or who might be a serial killer. Either way, it might get awkward being around that person.

Serial killers often have strange and bizarre fantasies when they're younger, usually with a sexual component. They need to relieve themselves as best they can, which often leads to compulsive masturbation. 

Serial killers often need to tell people about the crimes they've committed, whether they blab to their accomplices, their next victim, law enforcement officers, or just themselves. Their egos are both overwhelming and can often lead to their downfall. They're extremely proud of what they do.

Take Ian Brady and his accomplice, Myra Hindley. The two were convicted of killing five children, and they often revisited the burial sites, taking pictures to commemorate their misdeeds. Another serial killer named Trevor Hardy was also caught thanks to his inability to keep his murders to himself. Their egos can be huge, but it also helps us catch them. 

Voyeurism is the process of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors like undressing, sex, bathing, or other private matters. For some reason, the act of voyeurism is extremely appealing to young serial killers. Ted Bundy claimed that he liked to go out late at night and stalk his community, looking for women undressing or other naughty acts.

Psychologists speculate it has to do with having power over another person, by putting them in a position where the person being watched has no idea what is happening. So if it's activity night with your group of friends, and one of them suggests going out and spying on people engaged in intimate acts...you might have reason to worry. 

According to the Behavioral Science Unit of the FBI, "Serial killers program themselves in childhood to become murderers through a progressively intensifying loop of fantasy."

The fantasies that young serial killers often have help relieve anxiety and fear over things like abuse and neglect. Of course, not everyone who fantasizes about things is immediately a serial killer, but if your fantasies are overwhelmingly sadistic and violent, you might have a problem. 

Serial killer Ed Kemper, AKA the Coed Killer, was quoted saying, "I knew long before I started killing that I was going to be killing; that it was going to end up like that. The fantasies were too strong.They were going on for too long and were too elaborate."

So, to recap: fantasies about winning a million dollars? Good. Fantasies about murdering all your friends and loved ones? Bad. 

Do you know someone who always insists on starting the campfire? Do you ever find them just staring at a lighter for long periods of time? Do they joke about burning everything down and then say "JK, but really though..." all the time?

If you've answered yes to any of these, you might want to be careful. One of the most predominant early signs of being a serial killer is a desire to start fires. Psychologists say serial killers start off as arsonists because setting fire to things offers the ability to wield power and be in control, two things that go hand-in-hand with serial killing. 

A famous example of a serial killer who started off as a pyromaniac is David Berkowitz, AKA the Son of Sam killer. When he was arrested, he took responsibility for dozens of fires across New York. 

Criminologist Craig Traube revealed in a study that serial killers have several overlapping behaviors with substance abusers. Serial killers often have a need to kill that they can't control. They often experiment with different methods or victims until they find a pattern they like and then stick with it.

With serial killers being so similar to addicts, it's not surprising to discover that a lot of major serial killers were substance abusers as well. Jeffrey Dahmer was an alcoholic by the time he was in high school, and Ted Bundy quickly shifted to alcohol, drugs, and porn when he was arrested and could no longer kill. So next time you're at a party, keep an eye out for the person who sips just a little too much from the tequila bottle. 

If someone you know likes to take small animals and put them in elaborate traps straight out of a Saw movie, it's a pretty safe bet to assume they'll be a serial killer when they grow up.

Torturing small animals is a major indicator for something more serious. Serial killers kill to control other peoples' lives, and when they are younger, small animals are one of the only types of lives that they have the power to control.

Famous serial killers Jeffrey Dahmer, David Berkowitz, Albert DeSalvo, and Carroll Edward Cole all admitted that small animal abuse was one of their first violent acts, and when studies were performed on violent prisoners in prison, it was revealed that 70% of the most violent prisoners often engaged in animal cruelty when they were younger. 

Sure, we all hate the monotony of a 9-5 job, but serial killers are even worse at holding down jobs. A lot of them tend to work more blue-collar jobs, sticking to unskilled labor so its easier to move on to the next thing. David Berkowitz worked several low-ranking jobs, including as a mailman, before he was eventually caught.

So if someone you know has a new job every week because they weren't content with their last one, then it might be time to cut that person out of your life before they end up murdering you. 

This warning sign is particularly difficult to diagnose. It's said that serial killers often exhibit extreme antisocial behavior as children, but it's hard to pinpoint what exactly antisocial behavior is. The easiest way to tell if your child is displaying antisocial behavior that will make them grow up to kill a bunch of people is to notice if the child goes from being extremely social to extremely antisocial over a short period of time.

Ed Gein, who was the inspiration for Norman Bates, had no social connections whatsoever besides his "loving" mother who would punish Gein whenever he tried to make friends, and this lead to Gein living an antisocial lifestyle that didn't end well for anyone. 

Many serial killers come from less-than-stellar homes. A lot of them are abused in all sorts of traumatic, horrific ways that break their psyche down and help develop their serial killer tendencies. This abuse causes the child to feel humiliated and helpless, which in turn, is a feeling they will later seek to instill in their own victims.

It's safe to say that since serial killers have poor relationships with their families, it's not shocking to find out the families are among the first victims. At 15, Ed Kemper killed his grandparents, followed by six female college students, and then his violent, abusive mother. Kemper decapitated his mom's corpse, used her head as a dart board, and then tossed her vocal cords down the garbage disposal. They didn't have a very healthy relationship.